"Submitting yourselves one to another in the fear of God"

He is a king, in fact, one of the few respected African kings. But damn some barbaric tradition, the Ooni allowed his wife to seat while he stood sheltering her. Now, this is a kingdom that will bring change. Every real man knows that the easiest and best way to excel and reign peacefully is to elevate his wife, make her the queen, and honour her above all except Jehovah. A senator friend who was a well known professor of Microbiology and a successful businessman ever before going into politics once told me a story. He is the one who takes care of garbage in their New York home. One day, he forgot to do it and when his wife called his attention to it, he said, "My dear, I am a senator of the Federal Republic of Nigeria. His wife responded, "Yes, you are a senator, but in this house, you are a husband". My friend said that no wise man carries social status into his home. Stop reading only Ephesians 5:22; read verse 21 before the 22. It says, "Submitting yourselves one to another in the fear of God". A good leader serves and nurtures.
You are a ruler out there, but in your home, drop that pride and love your wife the right way.
Long live the king
Long live his queen

by: Amara Van-Lare 

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10 Things To Stop Doing If You Think You May Cheat

10.  Stop Blaming

Stop blaming your spouse for lack of sex in your marriage or for your marriage being in a rut. You need to accept your responsibility for problems in your marriage. If you cheat on your spouse, you have no one to blame but yourself. You, and you alone, made the decision to be unfaithful.

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10 Things To Stop Doing If You Think You May Cheat

9.  Stop Sharing Feelings

Stop sharing more of your feelings, problems, and dreams with your "friend" than you do with your spouse. Sure, sharing how you feel is generally a good idea, but when you keep your spouse in the dark about what is going on with you, you aren't being fair or faithful. Emotional intimacy often leads to a sexual affair.

Work out your marriage.

“People think because we are rich and famous that we don't go through things. We are real like everyone else. We are human. My wife had got sick. She was constantly nervous because of problems at work, personal life, her failures and problems with children.

She had lost 30 pounds and weighed about 90 pounds in her 35 years. She got very skinny, and was constantly crying. She was not a happy woman. She had suffered from continuing headaches, heart pain and jammed nerves in her back and ribs.
She did not sleep well, falling asleep only in the morning and got tired very quickly during the day. Our relationship was on the verge of break up. Her beauty was leaving her somewhere, she had bags under her eyes, she was poking her head, and stopped taking care of herself.
She refused to shoot the films and rejected any role. I lost hope and thought that we’ll get divorced soon… But then I decided to act on it. After all, I’ve got the most beautiful woman on the earth.
She is the idol of more than half of men and women on earth, and I was the one allowed to fall asleep next to her and to hug her shoulders. I began to pamper her with flowers, kisses and compliments.
I surprised her and pleased her every minute. I gave her lots of gifts and lived just for her. I spoke in public only about her. I incorporated all themes in her direction. I praised her in front of her own and our mutual friends. You won’t believe it, but she blossomed.
She became even better than before. She gained weight, was no longer nervous and she loved me even more than ever. I had no clue that she CAN love that much. And then I realized one thing: The woman is the reflection of her man. If you love her to the point of madness, she will become it." -- Brad Pitt

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